For dads splitting custody

Your kids need you sturdy. Not perfect.

Sturdy is a private coach that knows your kids, your custody calendar, and the texts that set you off — and it's in your corner at the exact moment you need it. Built by a divorced dad who needed it too.

Start the interview — it's free Ten minutes. See your family's plan before you pay anything.
Built by a 50/50 dadnot a parenting brand
Founding cohort: 50 dadsopen now, price locked for life
Delete everything, anytimeyour file is yours
handoff days the hard texts re-entry nights seven summers left
How it works

A coach that actually knows your family.

Not articles. Not a chatbot with amnesia. Sturdy builds a private file on your kids and your situation, then coaches you against it — every day, in the moments that count.

01

The Interview

Fifteen minutes of questions nobody's ever asked you. Your kids' temperaments, the custody rhythm, the patterns you can't see from inside. It listens like a coach, not a form.

02

Your Plan

Before you pay a dollar: a synthesis of what it heard, the season each kid is in, and the 90-day forecast. Most dads say this alone was worth it.

03

Daily corner-man

Texts that know your calendar. A nudge before the handoff. A place to vent at 9:40pm that texts back something useful. Paste her text, get back the calm reply.

04

The Sunday brief

Once a week: what shifted with each kid, what's coming, one honest challenge to how you showed up, and one play to run. Ten minutes that change the week.

The 9:41pm test

Built for the moments that actually break you.

Tuesday · 9:41 pm
She just texted that I'm "confusing the kids" by letting them stay up on movie night. I want to unload on her.
Don't. Not tonight. Here's a reply that gives her nothing to grab onto: "Movie night ran late — they were asleep by 9:45. See you at Thursday handoff." Short, factual, done. Your night doesn't belong to this text.
Sent. Thanks.
Good. For what it's worth — the kids will remember movie night, not the bedtime. That was a deposit.

The sturdiest parent wins. Not the loudest, not the softest — the sturdiest.

Kids anchor to the parent who doesn't wobble. Sturdy's whole job is keeping you that parent — through handoffs, hard texts, sullen re-entries, and the long game of the next seven summers.

Pricing

Less than one hour of the lawyer. Every day of the month.

$49/month

Cancel anytime. 30-day money-back guarantee — if the first month doesn't change how you parent, it's free.

Start free with the interview
  • The full interview + your family plan
  • Daily texts tuned to your custody calendar
  • The Drafter: calm replies to hard texts
  • Sunday brief on each kid, every week
  • Everything encrypted. Delete anytime.